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Car Leasing Tips for Women: 5 Things to Know Before You Sign

Oct 9
5 min read
Heather Boyle of Buyer for Hire (right) smiling with a client at a car dealership table during a car purchase.
Lease or buy, I sit on your side of the table.

Leasing can be a great choice. It's also the easiest car deal to get confused by.


I spent years working in dealership sales and finance. Now I help women buy and lease cars with confidence. And I'll be honest: leases are where I see the most smart, capable people get turned around.


It's not because you missed something. Lease quotes are built with a lot of moving parts. Payment, due at signing, miles, fees, residual value. When everything moves at once, it's hard to tell if a deal is actually good.


My top car leasing tips, in short: Negotiate the selling price, compare offers with nothing due at signing, get enough miles, use the brand's own leasing company, and don't lease a car you already know you want to keep.


Here's what each of those means and how to use it.


1. Negotiate the selling price. Yes, you can do that on a lease.

A lot of people think lease prices are set in stone. They're not. You don't have to pay MSRP (the window sticker price) when you lease.


On your lease paperwork, the selling price is called the capitalized cost. It's the biggest number driving your payment, and it's negotiable, just like it would be if you were buying.


Ask the dealer: "What are you selling the car for before any rebates? And does this payment line up with the lease price you're advertising for this car?"


I once had a Honda dealer offer a client $409 a month on a car they were advertising at $299 a month. Same car. The ad was right there online. That's why homework matters so much on a lease. It's easier to get confused, and it's easier to hide numbers.


2. Compare payments with nothing due at signing

This is the one I wish every woman knew. Lease ads make it really hard to compare deals, and I think that's on purpose.


You'll see something like:

  • Offer A: $299 a month with $4,999 due at signing

  • Offer B: $359 a month with $2,999 due at signing


Offer A looks cheaper. But spread that cash over a 36-month lease and Offer A really costs about $438 a month. Offer B costs about $442. They’re almost the same.

Comparing two car lease offers: $299 a month with $4,999 due versus $359 a month with $2,999 due, both about $440 a month over 36 months.
Same car budget, two very different-looking ads. Always compare with $0 due at signing.

And "due at signing" often doesn't include taxes and dealer fees, which can add hundreds or even thousands more.


So ask every dealer the same question: "What's the monthly payment with zero dollars out of pocket?" Now you can compare them side by side.


3. Get more miles than you think you need

Many lease ads are built on 7,500 or 10,000 miles a year. That sounds like plenty until you add up work, school pickups, weekend trips and the holidays.


Unless it's a third car or a weekend luxury car, I promise you most people drive more than that. Going over at the end of the lease is expensive. It's usually charged per mile, and it adds up fast. I've witnessed it again and again and it can begin a negative equity cycle where the excess mileage charges on the old lease get added into the next purchase.


Buying extra miles up front costs much less. If you're between two mileage options, pick the higher one.


4. Use the car brand's own leasing company

If you're leasing a Volkswagen, lease through Volkswagen Credit. Leasing a Toyota? Toyota Financial Services. These are called captive leasing companies, because they're owned by the car brand.


I'd skip outside lease companies you've never heard of. The brand's own company is where the special lease deals come from. Turning the car in at the end is usually smoother, too. And if something goes wrong, you're dealing with a company that wants you to buy from their brand again.


5. Don't lease a car you already plan to buy

If you already know you want to keep the car long term, finance it instead. Leasing first and then buying it out at the end almost always means spending more money overall.


Leasing makes the most sense when you like driving a newer car every few years and want a lower payment while you do it. Plans change, and a buyout can still make sense later. Just don't start a lease planning on it.


Car leasing tips: your questions answered

Can you negotiate a car lease? Yes. The selling price, called the capitalized cost, is negotiable on a lease just like on a purchase. You don't have to pay MSRP. Lowering the selling price lowers your monthly payment.


How do I compare two lease offers? Ask each dealer for the monthly payment with zero dollars due at signing, using the same term and miles. That's the only way to compare them fairly, since due-at-signing amounts often hide the real cost.


Does "due at signing" include taxes and fees? Often it doesn't. Many lease ads leave out taxes, registration and dealer fees. Always ask for the full out-the-door amount in writing.


How many miles should I get on a lease? More than you think. Unless it's a third car, most people drive more than 7,500 miles a year. Extra miles cost less when you buy them up front than when you pay for them at turn-in.


Is it smart to lease a car and buy it out at the end? Usually not, if that's your plan from the start. Leasing and then buying out the car almost always costs more overall than financing it from day one.


What is a captive leasing company? It's a leasing company owned by the car brand, like Toyota Financial Services or Volkswagen Credit. They offer the brand's special lease deals and are usually the safest choice.


A lease deal is still a car deal

Use these car leasing tips the same way you’d use them on any purchase: ask questions, compare and take your time. You're allowed to compare. You're allowed to say "I need to think about it" and walk out with the paperwork in your hand or here's a pro tip: take a picture of it.


The goal isn't to win a fight with the dealership. It's to drive away knowing you got a fair deal, and feeling good about it every time you make that payment.


Want a second set of eyes on a lease quote before you sign? That's exactly what my Good Deal Review is for. And if car shopping makes your stomach drop, start with my free mini-course, Ditch the Dread.


Heather Boyle is the founder of Buyer for Hire. Buyer for Hire grew directly from helping real car buyers navigate dealership deals, drawing on her 13+ years in automotive sales, finance and education.


 
 
 

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